Monday, December 20, 2004

Why my faith in humanity was redeemed this weekend

I have had a very, very busy few days. From 5pm on Thursday until 9am on Sunday I worked at the USO for 37 hours and though it left me tired, I wouldn’t have missed a second… it was great fun.

In particular on Saturday I worked at a fantastic Christmas party that was held for the children of deployed Reserves and Guardsmen. I cannot say enough great things about this party.

The USO organized the party with the Family Readiness Group at the local armory. However, the real stars of the Party was a group from Hinsdale that call itself the “Santa’s Helpers”.

This group asked for a Christmas wish list from all 150+ kids. Wow! Did they fulfill these kid’s wishes. In fact, I was told that after they got the first few lists they called the FRG and told them to not hold back - the kids should ask for EXACTLY what they wanted – regardless of price.

When I got to the armory the room was filling up with families and several volunteers from the Santa group. While we waited for Santa to come we watched the movie Elf on a huge screen and I worked with the kids at a craft table making frames for the pictures that they would soon get taken with Santa. Families were then taking turns going into the computer room to make video e-mails to send out to their active duty servicemen.

The Santa’s Helpers started to bring in the bags of toys. All the toys were beautifully wrapped and the toys kept coming, and coming, and coming. It was amazing. Santa soon appeared and the kids lined up for their turn to sit on his lap and take a picture.

Then the kids opened their gifts… unbelievable. They got Bikes, DVD players, Gameboys, video games, RC cars, clothes, movies, and much more! Everything was top of the line, brand new and exactly what the kids asked for.

At the same time each family was given a full holiday dinner in a box to take home and a tin of cookies from Mrs. Fields.

The kids were happy, and the parents were shocked.

Shocked because as one of them said – “but we’re just reservists” which just about broke my heart.

I think that sometimes it is really, really hard to be the spouse of a deployed reservist or guardsmen. They often live far from a base and without a great deal of the support that spouses of active duty military have. Add to that the fact that serving active duty will often leave reservists with less of a paycheck than their civilian job will.

I kept walking up to the Santa’s Helpers and telling them how fantastic their organization was. They kept telling me that it was the least they could do. Then the family members and military members who were there kept walking up to me to thank me and I would always reply that I had done nothing… This was all to thank them for the sacrifices they make everyday!

Then the conversation would just become competing thanks among the three groups (military, USO, Santas).

It really made me realize just how great people can be either making the sacrifices everyday as a military family, or by using their own money to ensure that stranger’s children have as good Christmas as possible – even though a parent is far from home.

For the rest of the weekend I was working at the airport USO that was open 24 hours because of the exodus of military nationwide trying to head home for the holidays. Many of the military’s schools shut down for the holidays (for example the ‘A’ schools here at Great Lakes).

It was great to see all these military men and women able to get home for the holidays. We were able to make sure all of our guests had a place to rest, something to eat, a free hone card (thanks to a donation from AT&T), a holiday tin of cookies to take home as a gift (thanks to Mrs. Fields) and a beanie baby bear to take to any kids at home (thanks to Ty).

Even better were all the stories the servicemen and women had of people who helped them out as they traveled. One soldier had a first class passenger insist on trading seats for the flight to Chicago, many had their drinks or dinner bought, and one young man had a person who walked him to the USO to make sure that we were open, and gave him $20 to buy breakfast in the morning.

Sometimes, during the holidays it is easy to get wrapped up in the fact that there is plenty of shopping left to do, or get upset with your family over the same old things. When that happens remember these stories, and the fact that there are many, many people who are far from home this holiday season, and many who are doing there best to ensure that every person in uniform (and their family) has as good a holiday as possible.

It isn’t to late to reach out to members of our military this holiday season. You can reach out by making a contribution to one of these great organizations…

USO My favorite of course, because I work there but it is a great organisation.

Soldiers Angels A non-profit run by military moms. You can adopt soldiers, or whole platoons to send care packages. You can also help wounded soldiers as they return from overseas.

There is a more comprehensive list on the great military blog Blackfive - Want to help our troops?
What the Heck Happened to ME?

So I haven't posted here in forever because it has been an exceptionally crappy year.

First my aunt died unexpectedly

Then my father was diagnosed with cancer

After a long battle my father died this summer

Less than a month later I had to have emergency abdominal surgery (not fun)

While out from work for 2 months because of the surgery I had to move (a bit hard to do when you aren't supposed to lift anything)

And now (finally) my life is on a somewhat even keel

I am sure nobody even remembers this blog exists... but that's ok... because soon some friends and I are going to launch a newer better group blog.

My hope is that a group blog will pull the pressure off me to post... while att eh same time keeping up enough pressure to guilt me into posts. (trust me it makes sense in my head)

Well, until my super cool new blog is launched I got the itch to blog... and this old homestead is still here....